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Nobody can make another person happy. But how do you know that person is "unhappy"? Having a quieter or more introverted personality often results in others ASSUMING you are "not happy" because you are not an outwardly expressive person. I have had many years of being attacked by the Smile Police. People who judge my face, tell me to "smile". Like I am supposed to mainipulate my face to suit someone's false presumptions about my mood ? It's ridiculous. I don't go about telling the Sunshine pumpers to tone it down or smile less. My face is my face. And i can't help how my genes formed together lol. Nor do i have the need to be "happy'. I don't chase "happiness". I don't describe or live my life in terms of happiness. I don't buy into the "Positivity" movement. I think we should feel ALL of our feelings. Glad, mad, sad, etc. That's real life to me. And there are times I feel joy and excitement , etc but I don't necessarily go about with that on my face.
So anyway, sorry for going on a tangent there. But, happiness is an indivual thing. So someone else's baseline is perfectly fine for them but from your perpective you may see "unhappy" when they really are not.
I worked occasionally with two guys who were always miserable. They never smiled or talked with anyone unless someone approached them. This went on for years and I guessed depression. The company reorganised and one had to move. The next time I saw him he was all smiles and never stopped smiling so I asked him why. He told me he was miserable because he didn't like or get long with the guys he was working with before. It was the same with the second guy, he didn't like the job he had been doing and was now doing a different job.
Lol. I do have fun at parties. I can be silly and goofy.You sound like you'd be a hit at parties.
Lol. I do have fun at parties. I can be silly and goofy.