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I don't think I'm normal. When someone yells at me it takes me days to recover. I feel like a total shit.
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Maybe consider why you're being yelled at and what upset the person enough to do so.
Just a suggestion.
How long before you recover from being yelled at?
When someone yells at me it takes me days to recover. I feel like a total shit.
Good shout 👍 What you tolerate is what you receive. Teach ppl to respect you from walking away from those you disrespect you. That’s self-respect 🫡When I was younger, a teenager, it would take me a minute to recover. As an adult, anyone who knows me knows that if you need, have something to talk about, etc you do not try to get your point across by yelling at me. It does not work. If I've done something wrong, having an adult conversation back and forth is more productive than yelling. I don't tolerate that from anyone.
Me too.Depends on a lot of factors. If it is in the heat of an argument, I probably just yell back. If it is out of the blue, I'll be taken aback for a bit. If it is someone I know, it will be different from a rando. If it is someone I know is capable of losing their cool, it will be less of a surprise and therefore less recovery time than if it is someone I would not expect it of.
Same. I wish I were better at holding in my tears . Emotional intelligence to the game!!!It depends. At work, by patients: usually by the end of the day I'm over it. By coworkers (never happened before) : I think it would take me quite a few days. I take things so personally and try my best to do a good job so I would be very upset. By boss: I'd cry instantly lmao. I'd try to keep it in but my lip would start to tremble and I hate that and knowing it's trembling will send me crying. But as for recovering from it, it'd be the same as if coworkers yelled at me.
If it's a stranger, I'd think about it that same day maybe before bed time but then I'm also done with it.
Removing yourself from the heated situation is a vital life skill.If the roasting is justified, I will accept it. If it's not, I will yell back, especially if the person is someone I neither like nor respect. In that situation, I might even get violent.
Well, that’s something you should work on improving. Good luck, sincerely.The thing is though, True, I have an uncontrollable Irish temper and to just let it go is not in my makeup.
There’s a difference between being nasty and self-respect. They don’t both go hand in hand.I don't really know that I want to change, True. At my age, it's too ingrained in me and also if I start ignoring it, people will just take advantage of me.
I can give as good as I get, and usually better.
Because you were too slow stocking the shelves at Target!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Depends on what im being yelled at over.
It depends on what is or was your normal, and how that wired your brain.You need recovery from being yelled at? I have heard of needing recovery after sex, an accident, pregnancy, a tragic event like death, or after a sports injury..
But being yelled at?
Seriously?
How does that work?
You need recovery from being yelled at? I have heard of needing recovery after sex, an accident, pregnancy, a tragic event like death, or after a sports injury..
But being yelled at?
Seriously?
How does that work?
Is it like after care from a brutal BDSM play?
I'm not trying to be funny, I am genuinely confused, because this is unheard of for me..
Aside from children, those with mental or emotional issues and people who live in or come from abusive homes, and other situations like that, who needs recovery from being yelled at?
As for me, I don't respond to being yelled at, I just ignore the person and walk away, and leave them looking like an idiot, and if they touch me, all bets are off.
Either way, whether I tell you off to your face for yelling at me or walk away you will still end up looking like an idiot.